Online Dating Tricks
Vivian Johnson questioned
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Oh yes…when it comes to online dating, it is possible to get tricked from so many different directions.
First, there are literally tens of thousands of single dating sites fighting for your membership. And as you may have learned , many will do anything to get it! One online dating site trick that by no means seems to go away is the “fictitious member” trick.
What happens is this; you sign up for their free trial which will allow you to view members, members can view you, and you can receive email. Cool…
You set up a basic profile; it doesn’t make sense to invest too much time since you’re not sure if you are going to stay!
Within minutes, you receive a very heart felt, sincere email from a top local executive, or another equally impressive field. Basically, they are looking for someone just like you…in your area! Well now…! You sharpen your wits; construct a very professional, cute, informative response. As soon as you send your response, you are glued to your monitor… amazed at your luck!
You’re waiting for a response from “Mr. My Future”…there it is!
You rush to your in box…and it’s from the site’s admin. dept. They remind you that you can only receive email…you can’t respond to email. What do you do…? Is
“Mr. My Future” all part of the membership “trick”?
You’re on another site…clickin’…cruisin’…socializin’…until you run into someone that not only caught your eye, but you’re both on the same reality page! He gets your small jokes…makes the same small off color remarks…you even share the same music files…
you have the same outlook on relationships…and even if the relationship doesn’t take a romantic turn, you would like to have this person as a friend. This is too excellent to be right …you waste every free minute instant messaging…emailing…phoning…texting…he is a major part of your day.
A couple of days go by…
You haven’t heard from him…emails aren’t life answered. You check the site you met him on and he hasn’t logged in for over two days. That’s not normal…you leave several messages on his cell phone…followed with text messages. But…no response. Of course you are concerned about him, but to be really honest? You know it’s selfish, but you don’t want to have this person walk out of your life. He’s brought a lot of simple pleasures to your world. The two of you have even plotted a weekend rendezvous…just to see if the physical/sexual attraction is there…while slowly sinking into self pity, there is an email. “It’s a really long tale , but could you wire me $325. before 10:00? You’re the only person I trust…I will clarify it all later…” Is this a trick…?
Both of these scenarios are right experiences. I’ve said all of that to say this: keep your guard up, until you are 100% sure you can securely take it down!
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Oh yes…when it comes to online dating, it is possible to get tricked from so many different directions.
First, there are literally tens of thousands of single dating sites fighting for your membership. And as you may have learned , many will do anything to get it! One online dating site trick that by no means seems to go away is the “fictitious member” trick.
What happens is this; you sign up for their free trial which will allow you to view members, members can view you, and you can receive email. Cool…
You set up a basic profile; it doesn’t make sense to invest too much time since you’re not sure if you are going to stay!
Within minutes, you receive a very heart felt, sincere email from a top local executive, or another equally impressive field. Basically, they are looking for someone just like you…in your area! Well now…! You sharpen your wits; construct a very professional, cute, informative response. As soon as you send your response, you are glued to your monitor… amazed at your luck!
You’re waiting for a response from “Mr. My Future”…there it is!
You rush to your in box…and it’s from the site’s admin. dept. They remind you that you can only receive email…you can’t respond to email. What do you do…? Is
“Mr. My Future” all part of the membership “trick”?
You’re on another site…clickin’…cruisin’…socializin’…until you run into someone that not only caught your eye, but you’re both on the same reality page! He gets your small jokes…makes the same small off color remarks…you even share the same music files…
you have the same outlook on relationships…and even if the relationship doesn’t take a romantic turn, you would like to have this person as a friend. This is too excellent to be right …you waste every free minute instant messaging…emailing…phoning…texting…he is a major part of your day.
A couple of days go by…
You haven’t heard from him…emails aren’t life answered. You check the site you met him on and he hasn’t logged in for over two days. That’s not normal…you leave several messages on his cell phone…followed with text messages. But…no response. Of course you are concerned about him, but to be really honest? You know it’s selfish, but you don’t want to have this person walk out of your life. He’s brought a lot of simple pleasures to your world. The two of you have even plotted a weekend rendezvous…just to see if the physical/sexual attraction is there…while slowly sinking into self pity, there is an email. “It’s a really long tale , but could you wire me $325. before 10:00? You’re the only person I trust…I will clarify it all later…” Is this a trick…?
Both of these scenarios are right experiences. I’ve said all of that to say this: keep your guard up, until you are 100% sure you can securely take it down!
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